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How to Avoid Relationship Break-Ups

How to Avoid Relationship Break-Ups

Every relationship has its good days and its bad days. If it didn’t, it wouldn’t be a real relationship (and let’s be real, it would be crazy boring.) In order to appreciate the good in a relationship you have to go through some of the bad. How, do you ask, can you avoid breaking-up when times get a bit rough?

There are so many different reasons that couples break-up that it’s impossible to cover those reasons in one article, so I’ll try to just cover a few so that you can try to avoid them.bench-sea-sunny-man (1)

1. Lack of communication. Sometimes we get so busy in our own lives that we just stop talking to each other. Work or other things seem to get in the way so the other person in the relationship feels left out, or is the one feeling left out.

2. Taking the other person for granted. Most of us have been there and done that on one side or the other. Things happen or you do things and the other person just expects that those things will continue to get done. You just know that the other person will always be there so you forget to thank them or tell them just how much you appreciate everything they do. Make gratitude a mandatory part of your relationship.

3. Lack of affection for one another. Do you begin or end your day with a simple kiss on the cheek? If so, you aren’t really being very affectionate toward one another. Relationships depend on closeness and affection and if that goes away, chances are, so will the relationship. Take time to really kiss your partner or just give them a random hug. It might catch them off guard the first couple of times, but after a while, they’ll probably be the one who initiates it.romantic-sun-drink-date (1)

4. You don’t “date” anymore. Remember what it was like when you first started dating? You both were so excited, so in tune with the other person that you just couldn’t wait to see them again? Well, you can get that back by going on a date at least once a week. You don’t have to do anything expensive if you are on a budget, but just getting out of the house for a real date can make a huge difference in a relationship. If you get stagnant and just do the same old, same old every single day, your relationship will get boring and suffer.

These are just a few things that can cause a relationship to end. The sad part is they can all be avoided by just giving your partner a little attention, love and focus on your relationship more than the other things that aren’t as important.

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June 15th, 2016

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